In My World

Mauritian Laureate System

Posted by: aniisah on: September 24, 2009

So finally the Government has decided to tackle the laureate system. Many I am sure have been waiting for this to happen, even if not quite in that way.

The major change consists of increasing the number of scholarships from 30 to 300. However, the scholarships, will be for undergraduate studies at the University of Mauritius. Moreover, those scholarships will be distributed on a region-wise basis. These are the three main changes affecting the system.

What I think on the matter: The increase from 30 to 300 scholarships is a good one. However, the 30 ones should have remained for studies abroad and the additional ones be granted for studies locally, at an institution of the person’s choice. Why only the University of Mauritius? We have the DCDM and other institutions. I suppose instead of making everything free for them at UoM, a certain sum of money could be given to these students. And don’t forget the facility problem we have at UoM. Well, maintaining the 30 scholarships for studies abroad might cost too much in the end. Can’t they reduce 30 to 10? 10 scholarships for studies abroad and 290 for studies locally?

Furthermore, you can’t force 300 laureates to study here. UoM, I am sure will not offer all the courses these students would choose to undertake. Full MBBS (Medicine)? Aeronautical Engineering?

And distributing those scholarships on a regional basis? Why? HSC exams are undertaken on a national level! Everyone sits for the same papers, so everyone should get an equal chance at those scholarships. I understand maybe the Government wants to give the less fortunate people of certain areas of the country a chance but really it, does not suit a laureate system.

Also, like my little brother pointed out to me, ‘VI 3′ students, that is, those sitting for the HSC exams for the second time must not be allowed to compete. It is not fair for the others sitting for the first time! For obvious reasons!

Anyway, no major decisions have been made yet. There was only a brainstorming session so far. I trust the Minister of Education is listening to all parties and a more proper change will then take place. Because really a change is indeed needed. I, for one, appreciate the Government’s initiative for change.

Girls and Bonds

Posted by: aniisah on: September 23, 2009

Do girls really take time to bond with each other? and do we bond for life? how much do we value *sisterhood*?

I believe that girls  do take time to bond. And it takes longer the older they get.  On the other hand, if we look at boys, they tend to bond faster. They can start slapping each others back in no time. Why is that? After pondering on that for a moment, the answer is quite simple. It is no secret that the fairer sex is ruled by their emotions. They have to *feel* something to do anything. :) and girls need to talk. They like sharing stuffs and hey, you can’t go babbling about your life to just anyone, right? Once a first connection is made, trust and loyalty follow. And once that has been established, a deep and beautiful bond is formed. :) and all that for sure takes time. ;)

Now, keeping that bond strong and to make it stronger requires effort from both parties, like it is for any kind of relationship. It is a two-way traffic. Numerous times I have heard my older cousins or colleagues or friends even complain that they have lost contact with those they have been very close to during college and university. Some have married and do not have time to communicate. This is somewhat a sad reality. We have SMS and MSN and still time is the limiting factor! and marriage does change everything. (*duh*) I am personally not there yet. I am not married and none of my close friends are. So things are still good. I pray hard for that not to change but I know things will change. *sigh*

Sisterhood also implies loyalty. Sticking to each other’s side through thick and thin. Once there is a deep connection between two girls, loyalty becomes something extremely valued. That is why, if there is some sort of betrayal, it is very hard (but not impossible as some may believe), to patch things up again.

Bottom line, I say yes, girls take time to bond. Most of the time the bond, if not nurtured, fades away and yes, we value sisterhood, for however long it lasts.

~~~Every Woman Needs a Best Friend~~~

Yet more lives lost

Posted by: aniisah on: September 9, 2009

Yesterday was indeed a black Tuesday! Two major road accidents, one causing four dead people, aging between 18 to 58. If I remember well, this is the second or third road accident involving those sugar trucks. And that’s one too many!  God, when are the authorities going to wake up and do something about this? Cause obviously there is a problem with that category of drivers!

A car can be considered as a weapon of mass destruction these days. A car can kill a large number of people! Now imagine a one big sugar truck! And hey, you don’t give weapons of mass destruction to stupid people! (Right?)

I say there is a major revision to be done where those drivers’ licenses are concerned. And maybe teach them where the brakes are found and that 40kmph means 40kmph! *duh*

Nannies – An option (?)

Posted by: aniisah on: September 7, 2009

Today, we have a large number of married women who work. And many of them are mothers too. What I particularly want to talk about here are those ‘new’ mothers. After their maternity leave, which is around two months, they have to worry about finding a good and qualified nursery or someone to look after their newborn. And that is not an easy task.

It is no secret that parents don’t really trust nurseries, especially those we have in Mauritius. They hire just about anyone, not really stressing on having the required skills and qualifications. Well, maybe not all but most are like that. We have countless stories that have been reported in the news that I’m sure gave terrible goosebumps.

But what are those parents to do? Their options are very limited. Some may think of grand-parents. However now grand-parents do not live under the same roof, or they live far or they are themselves frail or they just refuse. So despite themselves, parents leave their babies to the care of nurseries.

What would be a great option in my option are nannies. By definition a nanny is ‘employed by a family in either a live-in or live-out basis. The function of a nanny is to essentially be responsible for all care of the children in the home in a largely unsupervised setting. Duties are typically focused on childcare and any household chores or tasks related to the children. ‘ <http://childcare.about.com/cs/homecare/g/Nanny.htm>

In many developed countries, mainly the US or Europe, there are nanny agencies. They also provide nanny consulting services. Those people are properly trained and there is a whole set of rules and regulations that they abide to. *Also, and very importantly, nannies are not to be confused with babysitters.*

In Mauritius, while there are various instances encouraging women to join the workforce, that particular social aspect has been neglected: What do we do of the babies when the mothers have to work?

Again in my opinion, the Government could  set up national agencies that could train people in childcare, to train those who are interested in becoming qualified nannies. And so that parents can rest assured or rather, work peacefully, there must be some kind of regulation or some piece of legislature, like for example, granting licenses to qualified nannies.

I know that the ‘nanny concept’ will be a hard one to grasp by Mauritians but as many of the advantages will become known, more and more families will tend to adapt it. And nannies do not necessarily have to be live-in ones. Mauritius ain’t that big an island. :)

On a more personal note, this post springs from my last post. :P I’ve already decided that no child of mine will see the inside of a nursery! I’ll train my own nanny if I have to! ;)

<or maybe I can set up that nanny agency myself (!)> *-*

Modern or Traditional?

Posted by: aniisah on: August 19, 2009

A while back, I wrote about how now I have to make up new pictures of where I’ll be in some five years. [Damn, because of the current flu pandemic, I don't know if I have five years :P ]. Anyway, lately I’ve been wondering whether I’ll be more of a traditional mother or a modern mum.

Traditional Mother: the one who stays at home to look after the baby, cooks delicious meals everyday and does everything else.

Modern mum: the one who works, the one who doesn’t really have time to cook lavish meals everyday, the one who, in short, does not have much time. :P

I know it is too early (is it, really? :P ) to be taking decisions like that. There are many factors that are not present right now but which are bound to affect those decisions later. Anyhow, what I think at this moment is that I’d still wish to work. It is not because of the money. It is just part of who I am. My work is like some sort of justification of my skills. It shows what I can do, what I can achieve on a personal level. How do I give that up?

Still, deep inside, I want to be a traditional mother. I think it is so beautiful what they do. My own mother is like that. And somehow I wish I could be like her. *sigh* And specially, I so want not to ever say I don’t have time to do something for or with my family.

Well I guess I am right saying it is *too* early to take a final decision about the matter. But I can’t help but wonder. [I so don't have a fixed picture of where I want to be in some years.]  I have yet to think about marriage. Which I really can’t. Can I skip that part? *-*

Anyway, I just hope that along the way to having and building my own little family [ow, that sounds cute!], I’ll find a way to reconcile the modern and the traditional women in me and enjoying the best of both worlds. :)

Conveying your opinion

Posted by: aniisah on: August 17, 2009

Everyone has a right to have an opinion. Everyone has the right to voice out that opinion. But does everyone stop to think about the way and the words they will use when conveying that particular opinion?

The aim in sending a message to the people around you is to make your point clear and to show where you stand in a particular  situation. But most often than not, people don’t pause to think about how they are going to phrase that opinion so that their ‘audience’ will get them in the way intended.

Also, one other thing that I find really annoying is that when people express their *opinions*, they tend to be rude and adopt a ‘defy-me-if-you-dare’, or ‘I-am-always-right’ tone. Get real! Don’t think that when you are using a loud voice or specific words, your message will get through. I can understand frustration and exasperation when you have tried a number of times to get something through to someone and it is to no avail. Still, for me, it is not reason enough to stoop to a certain low level just to kick the message in. :P You have to learn to walk away and turn a deaf ear.

In addition to that, you have to consider in what medium you are before you start talking. Or writing for that matter.  We are humans. We live in something called a Society (be it a the live or virtual society). And there are rules and etiquettes to follow when living in one.

And don’t tell me ‘truths hurt and lies worse’. Being frank and honest does not mean being rude and aggressive. Always tell the truth, yes, but tell it *right*.

Eating Healthy Costs

Posted by: aniisah on: August 12, 2009

Keeping healthy eating habits cost money. A lot. More people nowadays are aware of the vast advantages of including more veggies in our food. But really, those green stuffs are expensive!

I went for some green shopping at Ebene Way the other day and was amazed to find out that one lettuce costs Rs10, One pear Rs11, One kiwi Rs13, a handful of grapes at Rs35, one peach at Rs13. And people usually take more than one and on more than just one day. At the end of last week, I did a little maths and found that I spent a minimum of Rs300 just on fruits. In my opinion, that’s a lot and for just one person.

What about a whole family who likes a variety of fruits and vegs? [I can't take mine as an example. Don't ask why. -_-'] I know the fruits are cheaper at *bazar* or *la foire* but they don’t vary significantly. I just know apples are *3 pou 10*. :P But you need more than just apples or pears or peaches. Different fruits bring different vitamins and minerals.

I think it is a long shot but still it would be nice if there could be some regulations on those prices. It will act as a good initiative to encourage people to consume more fruits and vegetables than junk food, which happen to cost less. [But as the saying goes, 'Bon marcher coute cher'.] This way too, parents can include more than just apples in their kids’ lunch bag, salads can finally be an integral part of a mauritian meal. But like I said, it is quite unlikely that the authorities will do anything about it soon.

And yeah, I have a thing against apples.

Pedestrian Crossings

Posted by: aniisah on: August 7, 2009

Pedestrian crossings are for pedestrians. Why can’t drivers grasp this concept, I don’t know.

Some time back, I was listening to R1. (I usually don’t listen to that crap but since I was not in my car, I could not say anything.) Anyway, on air this guy (I really don’t like him) was complaining about how he was stopped by a policewoman at a pedestrian crossing to let a woman pass. He was annoyed about the fact that there was only one person there and he had to stop. I was like totally shocked! Other listeners were calling and agreeing, yeah agreeing with his nonsense!

Last time I heard, pedestrian crossings were made for pedestrians. Drivers *have* to stop to let them pass. And that’s according to the law. I am pretty sure that it is not stipulated anywhere that there should be a minimum number of people at the cross to stop! And driving instructors always repeat to stop at pedestrians crossing when you go for your driving test. Otherwise, you could fail! Again, mine never mentioned that there should be a specific number of people waiting to cross.

Besides, those crossings are there for a reason. A very important one. It allows safe passage for pedestrians. I don’t see why drivers cannot be bothered to stop. It really does not ask for much effort. Just brake. Change gear. If you have an AT car, that’s easier! Just brake.

And that R1 guy, he was on air with many other drivers listening to him. And he was giving such a bad example! It is a shame really! There are people everyday (like the police)  pressing road users to pay great attention and be careful. R1 guy just ignored all that and did the contrary. But what to do, there are some who think they are above the law.

Bottom line, *pedestrian* crossings are for *pedestrians*. Respect that.

***A person’s life is more important that a fancy piece of machinery.***

24/7

Posted by: aniisah on: August 4, 2009

The so awaited 24/7 ‘event’ has already come and gone. Port-Louis has been awake for three nights in a row. Shops, restaurants and other food outlets were open till past midnight. Live shows in different corners of the capital.
There is some kind of general agreement that it has been a success and the organisers are planning ahead for more such events. I agree with that too. It was a nice experience. Atleast now there is a move towards a more modern Mauritius. :)

Of course, as a first, we cannot expect things to be completely perfect. People complained about parking space and many shops did not participate in the event. And you could only window shop for most of those that were open. That was not very interesting. Hawkers benefited the most I think, be it where food or clothes are concerned.

One thing that I think  is important too. This three-day event accentuated the traffic problem that is faced in Port-Louis, especially around the Business Centre. The Government’s initiative to decrease congestion, for example, the Ring Road project should be supported fully. There are problems arising in that department but let’s believe that an appropriate solution can be found for them.

Coming back to the subject of this post, I would not mind having more nights like these. It can be a weekend every month. Gradually, the trend will be set and people will get more used to the idea. :)

Just imagine shopping 24/7! yaaay! :D

Little Dreams that Came True

Posted by: aniisah on: July 29, 2009

Early this morning, a 15 year old me came to mind. Just like that I was remembering the things that I was wishing for back then. I used to picture myself going to the university and learning great stuffs (back then, it was a number of different fields but never IT ;) ). I would learn how to drive and own a cool car. I would go to work everyday, well-dressed, in that car. My office would be a nice one with great colleagues. My work would be appreciated and hence I would be respected.

After all of these years, those small little day dreams have come true. I am where I was picturing myself to be. And maybe a little bit more. :) What’s amazing is that I didn’t realise it on the way. All those little things came naturally, in its own time. :)

But am I now at a standstill? I can’t really picture the me that I would be in 5 years. Different pictures come to mind but I can’t seem to choose which one I want it to be and work my way to that.

Are the things that I want now so out of reach? Or am I in need of some spiritual guidance? What’s missing? *duh*

Guess I’ll just go back to dreaming little dreams of me…Hoping that those will come true too. :)